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Friday, January 05, 2018
Missing the Friendship and Routine
Running outside in the nice weather has been great! Seeing the sites of a new city and location while running always makes the time go by rapidly and the run feels much easier as well while exploring.
I feel a lot of melancholy about my father-in-law, however. When I go to visit him at the nursing/rehab facility he is not very talkative. He mostly will lay on the bed and not say much. He is depressed, and yet I cannot figure out how to help. He does not want to try to get better, and I wish he would try. Normally, this being a Friday, if he were home, we would be having pipes and libations together and talking about all sorts of topics together. But, he has lost the will to try to get better. I do not know how to help.
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He's old. Walk in his shoes ...
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the warm.
Hugs!
There is not much you can do for FiL. He is tired and ready maybe. As long as he is comfortable in the meantime. My uncle just wanted to die for some time. He was depressed and it was impossible to raise his mood. Sometimes we will just have had enough.
ReplyDeleteshow him cat videos on your phone
ReplyDeleteGetting old is a pain in the ass and wasn't part of my plan.
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