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Friday, December 08, 2023

Even Though...


 

The decision to smoke a pipe at the cemetery when visiting my Dad on his 100th birthday was both a bit of a surprise and also a "no-brainer" action as well.  What I mean is that I actually had not been thinking a great deal about THIS YEAR being the 100th year since my Dad had been born..... I think the last time I had been thinking about this milestone was perhaps a little bit back in late August.  I always work hard to find a way to AT LEAST visit both my Mom and my Dad at the cemetery on their birthdays.  I go other times of the year as well, but I try to  make it a point to always do so on their birthday especially.  

With "100" being such a big milestone, one that I would never experience again, when I DID recall near his birthday that it was this "milestone" I also KNEW in my heart that it was a time where and an event where I SHOULD smoke my pipe, regardless of any other factors or impacts. I am glad I did so.  In doing so at the cemetery, I felt an even deeper sense of closeness with my Dad.  

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5 comments:

  1. Now let's hope, Professor, that you can revisit Iwan Ries before too terribly long. An annual pipe with your father is a wonderful tradition to have begun, but I hope you can find other happy occasions for indulging between those annual milestones!

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  2. My mother would be 100 also this year. She was born September 16 1923.

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  3. Perfectly appropriate indeed, PT. My dad would have been 95 in September. I miss him every day.

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  4. Entirely appropriate, Professor.

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