I am not sure if I am wrong or not so I am asking for opinions. I happen to not really be fond of the various electronic games that damn near everyone plays all the time, so maybe I am too sensitive, or maybe I am correct in my feelings. I really do not know at the moment:
My wife has a smart phone. She is very "into" playing all sorts of various games on this phone. Usually, it is "ok" even though I cannot for the life of me understand her passion for these games (Candy Crush is one example). But what does irk me no end is that she will a) go into the bathroom and play the games for twenty to thirty minutes at a time, just sitting there, or even worse, b) she will play those damn games instead of talking to me while I get things ready for us to be able to relax together in the evening. She seems to think it is perfectly normal and ok to whip out the phone and start bopping around on one of those damn games when we need to get some things done so we can relax for the evening as a family. I just do not get it. I have told her at least 30 times how that when she plays those damn games in front of me that it bothers me and makes me feel lonely and hurt. I truly am at a loss for understanding. She loves me and I love her, so that is not an issue, but I really, sincerely do not understand why it bothers me that she doesn't care and does this over and over.
In the greater scheme of things this is a small thing, I know. But it really bugs the hell out of me and hurts and I do not understand.